There really are two kinds of love, and there’s something to be had from both of them. The first kind of love is really the old word “infatuation,” where you feel singled out by a person. It’s very exciting, and who you are seems to rest on how [that person] responds to you. That does bring two people together, and there needs to be that kind of chemistry and attraction, but it never lasts, and it isn’t enough to build a life together.